Today is Mother’s Day and across the world Primary children will be getting up in sacrament meeting to sing a song to their mother’s in honor of the day. In our family we have a joke about my mom’s least favorite Mother’s Day Primary Song – Mother, I Love You. If you’ve never heard this song performed by a chorus of primary children you may not understand why she has such a loathing for this song – the lyrics are really sweet and who wouldn’t love ANY song sung by their children to them on Mother’s Day?! But something about the timing of the song, and the opening few measures, the sound is reminiscent of a whining child who is slowly plodding through and fighting doing their morning chores. While that may be an appropriate depiction of motherhood, it’s hardly the one most desired for remembrance on Mother’s Day.
Fortunately in our ward this year they’ve chosen a different song to honor mothers. This will be my first Mother’s Day when I will actually have a child old enough to sing with the Primary children for Mother’s Day, and I’m stoked! When I first heard the song choice, while I was relieved it wasn’t the aforementioned song, I was a bit confused. The song that our music director had chosen is Love is Spoken Here, and while it’s a beautiful song, it had never struck me as a particularly Mother’s Day-y song. However as I listened to our primary kids sing it, tears welled up in my eyes as it made me think of my own mother. For those of you who don’t know this song the words to the first verse are below –
I see my mother kneeling with our family each day
I hear the words she whispers as she bows her head to pray
Her plea to the Father quiets all my fears
And I am thankful, love is spoken here.
I wish I had a digital picture I could post, but I have a very vivid picture in my own mind of my mother kneeling by her bed daily in prayer. It’s probably one of the most recurring and constant memories of my growing up years to see her there. Almost daily I would walk into her room to ask her where my homework was, or what we were having for dinner or to come kill a spider in my room – and there she was in silent prayer at the side of her bed. I know that my mom has a very close prayerful relationship with our Heavenly Father.
As I heard the words “Her plea to the Father quiets all my fears” I thought that even though I no longer live with my mom and don’t have that visual reminder, I know that she is still there by her bedside and praying for me. I thought of some of the things I am facing right now that are a little bit daunting. When I thought about it, I knew that my mom is praying for me to be able to get through the trials I have before me, and I truly did suddenly have all my fears quieted. Whatever I may have to face, I know that my mom is there, pleading on my behalf with the Lord. What a wonderful feeling of peace that gives me.
The last line doesn’t quite seem like it goes with the rest of the song. The song is tells a story of prayer, but then at the end the author says they are thankful that love is spoken in their home. The word love isn’t even mentioned in the song before that. However, I think that’s a powerful message right there. Even without saying the words “I love you” to her child, the mother in this song has communicated love more effectively than any words could. My mother spoke her love for us with actions as much as with words. How could I doubt that my mother loved me when she spent her time talking to the Lord to know how best to raise me and love me and do all that was best for me? I think the message of the song is that the best kind of love comes through teaming up with the Lord to provide the best care possible for your children.
I feel so very blessed to have the wonderful mother that I do. Her example of prayer and faith has been a beacon to me throughout my life, and will continue to be so into the future. I love you so much Mommy, and I hope that I can be as good of an example of faith and love to my children as you have been to me.
Happy Mother’s Day!